Consider this: the National Health and Social Life Survey found that 85% of men who were living with their partner reported that they masturbate. A million times, yes.īeing in a relationship does not necessarily decrease a man’s interest in masturbation or the frequency with which he does it. First, let’s consider whether it’s common for married guys to masturbate. Thanks for this very interesting question. Am I the exception or are there more guys like me out there?” And, of course, if you were wondering, my wife has no idea because I know she would freak out about both. I sometimes feel like a bit of a freak and like I’m very unusual in these preferences/habits. I’m wondering if either or both of these things are common for married guys. I also enjoy straight, bi, and gay porn while bating. However now I bate pretty much every day that I’m not home and even sometimes when I’m home. I sort of thought I’d stop after getting married and I did for a little while. Since my teens I’ve been an avid masturbator. I’m happily married and travel a lot for work. A reader submitted the following question: